Collins Sabina Sjogren – Birth Story

As we neared 40 weeks, I was getting anxious. Mostly because I wanted to meet her so bad it hurt. I tried everything to get her to come a little early. I bounced. I walked. I ate pineapple. I drank raspberry leaf tea. Nothing. I’m such a planner so this part of not knowing when she would make her appearance was killing me. Mind you I was at week 37 when this anxiety set in. All the advice I was getting was saying that first babies usually don’t come early and that I should even be prepared to have her late.

A few days into week 37, I started having contractions at night. They would wake me up and I would start timing. It was weird because the pain was mostly in my back but also in my pelvic area. Since Collins is my first, I didn’t really know what to expect when it came to contractions. The pain I was feeling felt like bad period cramps but it wasn’t unbearable. This would go on for a few hours and then I would go back to sleep, waking to find that I hadn’t gone into labor yet. This happened for a few more nights then stopped.

On Sunday, January 27th, Chris and I woke up and got ready for a pancake breakfast at our favorite spot followed by a few errands. We spent a few hours going all over town and it was really fun. We were in the moment and something about that morning felt so productive all while spending quality time with each other. Little did we know that would be our last solo adventure before Collins arrived. 

A friend had given me a recipe (shared at the bottom of the post) for a drink that supposedly can help get your labor started. It was a four ingredient concoction that was disgusting but ultimately…worked. While we were out, we gathered the ingredients for the drink as I planned to make it later that day. When we got home, I decided to take a bath and soak for a little while. I washed my hair (so thankful I did this) and took my time getting ready. I then went downstairs and made the drink. This was around 2PM. I drank it all and boy was it GROSS. I immediately didn’t feel well. I laid down and FaceTimed my mom (because what else was I supposed to do) and told her what I had just done. Knowing how impatient I am, she just laughed and told me Collins would come when she was ready.

Around 5:30, I went downstairs and started talking to Chris. And by talking to him I mean I was getting upset with him because he didn’t put my food in the fridge like he obviously should have (pregnancy hormones…woah!) I turned to open the fridge and felt a huge GUSH. He said I looked up with the widest eyes and said “something just happened – I think my water broke”. Naturally he came back with “Are you sure you didn’t pee yourself?”, half joking. I went to the bathroom and was 100% sure my water had broken. Somehow I remained calm but it in that moment, everything I knew to do went out the window. Naturally, I called my mom and told her what happened and even asked her what do we do now?! As if I haven’t been preparing for this moment. Haha I remember laughing and thinking that this was it, we were about to have a baby! Chris went into full on panic mode. He was just so nervous and wanted to make sure we got to the hospital on time. We got everything into the car, kissed Birdie and made our way to the hospital. I don’t think Chris has ever driven so carefully and with a purpose in all his life. We got to the hospital around 6:30PM and were in our room and settled by 7PM.

A few months prior to giving birth I made the decision that I wanted to go epidural free for the delivery. I’m not opposed to it and told Chris over and over that “I was reserving my right to change my mind if needed”. I think once I got the idea in my head that I wanted to go this route, it was a now a challenge for me – insert competitive nature. I honestly just wanted to see if I could do it and I didn’t back down. 

That was about the extent of my birth plan. I know how quickly things could change so I didn’t want to have this elaborate plan in place and be disappointed if something didn’t work in my favor. I’ve been really laid back this entire pregnancy so I wasn’t too worried about having a plan. 

When I got to the hospital and got all set up on the monitors, I was dilated 2cm. My contractions were about 4-5 minutes apart. During the 7pm-8pm hour, my parents along with Anna arrived to help me through the laboring process. Chris and I decided that we wanted to do the pushing without anyone else in the room. I did want my mom and Anna with us in the room beforehand though. They have both been intricate parts of our journey to get pregnant from day one. I just needed my people with me. The calming sense that they both gave us while I was laboring was exactly what we needed.

The contractions were painful. They felt like the most intense period cramp times ten. Every time a contraction came around, I remember just saying to myself “pain with a purpose” over and over. I knew that the end was near. Around midnight, I was dilated 5cm. Within the next hour I was dilated to 8cm and that’s when we started the pushing process. My parents and Anna left around 1:30 and we started pushing shortly thereafter. We pushed for almost two hours but it honestly felt like 30 minutes (which I guess is best case scenario).

The worst part of pushing was that in between pushes, my contractions started spacing out. So I would push so hard and Collins would crown then I would have 2 minutes between my next contraction and she would go back into the birth canal. This happened for an hour. Finally, I pushed a few times harder than I could have ever imagine. I felt like I was bursting all the blood vessels in my eyes and every bone in my body was aching. The pain was so intense but as crazy as this is going to sound, I don’t fully remember it now. God probably planned that for women because why on earth would you want more kids if you could remember the intense pain during the delivery?? 

At 3:15AM on Monday, January 28, 2019, our sweet little Collins Sabina entered the world. I remember seeing her coming out and my first thought was that she had such a cone head (haha) but she was so beautiful and perfect. She was also incredibly alert and just looked around for a few seconds before she let out her first cry. What an amazing moment. All of my exhaustion and hard work to get her out was over and she was here! The doctors were all shocked that she weighed 7lb 12oz, as was I! Healthy was all I really cared about.

As they were cleaning her up, the doctor was working on delivering the placenta. During this time, I started to lose a lot of blood. Typically in a vaginal delivery, one loses around 500ml of blood and I was nearing 800ml of lost blood. They gave me medicine to help control the bleeding but the medicine along with the actual blood loss caused me to spike a fever of 102. Because of this, I was so exhausted that I could barely stay awake as we were doing skin to skin with Collins. It was the weirdest feeling. I wanted to hold and love on her but I couldn’t even keep my eyes open. They took her to the nursery to run her tests while I started to recover. Thankfully I was fine and once my fever went down, we were able to move rooms and were reunited with our babe.

Chris was unbelievable during this whole process. The midwife asked him to hold my leg while I was pushing and he jumped right in (although his plan all along had been to stay above the shoulders – haha). He was so encouraging and cheered me on the whole way. Once she was born, he was able to cut the umbilical cord and helped the nurses bath her. He even changed her first poopy diaper. They say that you fall in love with your husband all over again when he becomes a father and that couldn’t be more true. The way he looked at her in those first moments will forever be some of my favorite.

I’m also incredibly thankful that we had our photographer, Jessica in the room with us. She documented the whole process. I really wanted to be able to look back and remember everything about Collins’ delivery and I didn’t want Chris to miss something because he was trying to capture the moment. Jessica is a close friend from college so we knew her before the big day came. All the photos she took and the video she made is exactly what I was hoping for. If this is something you are on the fence about, I promise you will not regret it!

We stayed in the hospital for a few days and have been home loving on Collins for the past month – crazy to think it’s already been that long! Her birth was truly amazing and I thank God every single day for our little miracle.

Collins Sabina Sjogren | January 28, 2019 | 7 pounds 12 ounces | 21 inches

Watch our Birth Video below:

Collins Sabina Sjogren from Jessica Quinones on Vimeo.

This is the recipe for the concoction I drank the day I went into labor. I can’t promise it will do the same for you. If you have any concerns, make sure to check with your doctor first. Castor Oil alone can cause diarrhea so if you have a sensitive stomach, be extra cautious!

  • 10oz Apricot Juice (mango nectar or pineapple juice will also work)
  • 8oz Brewed Lemon Verbena Tea (or any tea with lemongrass in it)
  • 2 T Castor Oil
  • 2 T Almond Butter
  • Blend it all together and drink it all at once – it doesn’t taste good. You can drink it over ice if you can drink it warm.

Thank you so much for your love and support as we have welcomed Collins into the world. A few similar posts that might be of interest are:

43 Comments

  1. 2.28.19
    Alison said:

    ALLLLLL THE TEARS 🙂 so beautiful!!!

  2. 2.28.19
    Nicole Gooch said:

    Love this!! Reminded me of this verse:

    “A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world.” John 16:21 

    Congrats!!! 

  3. 2.28.19
    Rebecca said:

    So beautiful. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  4. 2.28.19
    Carrie said:

    Brittany- that video!!!! I’m 37.5 weeks and just lost it at my desk at work. So so beautiful and can’t wait to meet our seeet IVF princess soon. Thanks for sharing your story!

  5. 2.28.19
    Sara said:

    I cried reading this. Made me think about my own baby girl. You did go mama and Collins is beautiful. I’m glad you and baby are doing well!

  6. 2.28.19
    Hannah said:

    Joyful tears all over again! It’s a beautiful story!

  7. 2.28.19
    Hope Daugherty said:

    Well we had the same birth story!! Spiked a fever as well… no skin to skin at first because they had to test him for infection… 7lbs and 12oz as well! Wow:) beautifully written so Happy you two have your miracle!!!!

  8. 2.28.19
    Kalli Barber said:

    Oh my goodness! That video made me cry! So beautiful!

  9. 2.28.19
    MariaKristina said:

    Oh this is just the sweetest!! I am so happy for you both and your little blessing! The video was the loveliest I have ever seen. I had never thought about doing one but I see why you would recommend it so highly now! Continued blessings on you and your sweet family! ?

  10. 2.28.19
    Colleen said:

    I’m crying. Birth is such a beautiful miracle. Wonderful story, wonderful pictures and video, and what a little masterpiece little Collins is!

  11. 2.28.19
    Evelyn said:

    Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl, as well as your beautiful family! Such a beautiful story. Honestly, made me cry. I’m due April 27….and definitely keeping your concoction. I’m also thinking of going epidural free. I mean for ages, there were no epidurals. Why can’t I. Everyone thinks I’m crazy for going that route. But hoping I can do it. Again, congratulations ?

  12. 2.28.19
    Bridgett said:

    Thank you for sharing the details of your special day with us. It makes me excited for my delivery tomorrow!

    Jessica did a great job!!! What a treasure to have captured these precious moments! I’m sure Collins will love having these someday when she is going to become a mommy.

  13. 2.28.19
    Taylor said:

    What a beautiful birth story! I’m 33 weeks pregnant and the water works were in full effect watching that special video, so touching! Your strength and determination to bring your daughter into this world naturally is truly inspiring and makes me so look forward to the coming weeks when I get to meet my little one! Congratulations to your beautiful family!

  14. 2.28.19
    Hannah Baer said:

    What a beautiful video. I literally cried like a baby watching it. So happy for a healthy baby and Mama after your long and emotional journey!

  15. 2.28.19
    Jenny said:

    Congrats! From one mother to another, it is such an amazing and blessed journey! Enjoy and cherish every moment. Each and every day is special. I am so happy for you and your growing family!

  16. 2.28.19
    Sammi V said:

    TEARS. This video is amazing, you and your hubby are amazing, and your journey has been amazing to watch! Congrats a thousand times!

  17. 2.28.19
    Maria said:

    Amazing! I had planned on natural birth as well but I made it only to 8 cm then asked for the epidural. I was in labor for 48 hours prior to finally going in! It’s a beautiful process and the outcome is so worth it! God bless your baby girl ❤️

  18. 2.28.19
    Stephanie said:

    We conceived our four with IVF. My last pregnancy ended at 37 weeks when my water broke, as well. My daughter was born vis c-section after 19 hours of med free labor. She weighed 7lbs 9oz and was such a chunk.

    What a beautiful birth story, it brings back our birth stories and reminds me of how much I loved each process bringing my babies into the world. ♥️

  19. 2.28.19
    Clair Sayer said:

    Congratulations on your precious baby girl!

  20. 2.28.19
    Hannah said:

    I just sobbed through your whole video while at work. Congratulations on your baby girl!!

  21. 2.28.19
    Dabba said:

    Takes me back! What a beautiful video! Crying in my office while I pump! ?

    I asked my husband a few months ago about the labor. I said “I only pushed for what, 30 minutes?” he was like “oh no, it was like 3hrs”. I passed out between contractions… He also didn’t think he would be helping with labor, but grabbed a leg also lol!

    Thank you for sharing, your family is beautiful.

  22. 2.28.19

    Such a beautiful post and video for Collins to treasure when she’s older. Congratulations!

  23. 2.28.19
    Lidia said:

    This video made me cry as soon as it started. Your baby is just so cute! God bless!

  24. 2.28.19
    Roxane Artz said:

    Such a beautiful video and what a keepsake! Cried through entire video as it brought back memories of my own deliveries! Congratulations again on your beautiful little Collins!

  25. 2.28.19
    Emily said:

    Your video made me cry!
    Our babies are 1 month apart, and I too burst all the blood vessels in my eyes from pushing without an epidural! I had no whites to my eyes and could have auditioned for the walking dead! It was such a surprise to everyone including my doctor. It’s nice to see this happened to someone else too 🙂

  26. 2.28.19
    Sandy said:

    Gosh girl, this is awesome!! Crying over here! There is nothing like childbirth – it is such a precious experience!! Congrats to y’all!

  27. 2.28.19
    Lindsey said:

    What a beautiful story! My due date is approaching and I’m desperate for this little one to come out already! In the recipe, does “T” stand for teaspoon or tablespoon? Thank you!

  28. 2.28.19
    Paige said:

    I just cried so many happy tears for you! I am so excited to watch you love on your sweet girl. ❤️

  29. 2.28.19
    Meghan said:

    Hey!

    Xurrent’y sitting At 27 weeks pregnant, hormones in full effect… I am histerically crying over this blog post!! What an amazing story with the best of pictures and the movie is just amazing. I have bee on the fence about a photography birth and now I need to find someone that does it here where I live!!

    Thanks so much for sharing!! ❤️Collins❤️

    Meghan

  30. 2.28.19
    Brittany said:

    Crying all the tears over here! So amazing to have this captured. Thank you for sharing, what I beautiful family you have !!

    Xo
    Brittany

  31. 2.28.19
    Lisa said:

    What a beautiful video of watching a family be born. Thanks so much for sharing your joy. No epidural…girl, you are a rock star and looked amazing! Welcome baby Collins.

  32. 2.28.19

    Well the tears are just flowing. ❤️This makes me think back to when we had our kids and of course to the future when mine have their own. Just beautiful!!!! The video is perfect just like your precious Collins. XO

  33. 2.28.19
    Brenda said:

    So beautiful!( And the music to the video is stunning. I bet Chris will dance with Collins on her wedding day to that song❤️) Congratulations on your precious gift from above…love and blessings!

  34. 2.28.19
    Sarah said:

    I love the entire story and am so over the moon excited for y’all! The video brought me to tears!! Such special memories to have!!

  35. 2.28.19
    Mary Paas said:

    Awesome!! Made me emotional!!! Treasure the memories!!!!!

  36. 2.28.19
    Madison said:

    Brought tears to my eyes! Beautiful story, beautiful little baby!

  37. 2.28.19
    Jamie said:

    Wow what an absolutely beautiful video. So much love in one room. Congratulations to you and your beautiful family.

  38. 2.28.19
    Jan fisher said:

    That is just the best!!!??

  39. 2.28.19
    Brandi Mendell said:

    Wow! This is beautiful! What a precious treasure to have. ?

  40. 3.1.19

    Beautiful. Congratulations. I am from Atlanta and what hospital did you go to? I am curious about it as I might start my pregnancy journey in the near future. Who was your doctor?

  41. 3.1.19
    Margie said:

    Thank you for sharing. ❤️

  42. 3.1.19
    Caleigh R said:

    What a beautiful birth story- that I happened to stumble upon while being similarly anxious to meet our baby girl. 😉 I will have to try your concoction tomorrow (thank you for warning about the taste) … is castor oil and almond butter teaspoon or tablespoon?

    Congratulations to you & your family on baby CSS. Xo

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